Hi Heather!

Methinks thou hast begun to understand the gist of our problem.

That's why this forum was "born".

I must compliment you on your tremendous insight into boylove. I know it has cost you many hours, and you are the one-in-a-million who makes the effort to objectively pursue the reason behind our feelings. I have watched the attitudinal changes which are taking place in your heart, and perceive that you will one day do a great service to us as a community. Folks just don't understand folks they hate, nor do the great majority want to.

I suppose most boylovers simply handle it the way I do: I just love the children, and try to give them the respect they deserve, and as much of my time as I can. The rewards are astounding! I KNOW there are children I can count on, probably more than many adults.

With great respect and affection,
Andy