....about being a BL. It keeps me from falling into the "importance" trap. For the next few days I'll be hobnobbing with folks who are "important" because of their positions rather than who they are. It's an easy trap to fall into and one that frequently means sacrificing time with family and with friends. Knowing how limited the time I have with YF's is, I'm never tempted to sacrifice them to become "important." ---Ford |