after I read your other post - but I suspect the point is still valid - if you misdirect him by indicating your opposition to gay sex, you pass him the message that it isn't an issue. Of course your very silence when he's sounding off about women may well tell him something anyway - and it is that he is at some level responding to by hinting at your apparent attraction to boys, However whether this is a conscious strategy or not is unknowable without it all spilling out!! Oh what messy, devious lives we are forced to lead :-( |