This article "Shame, Fear, Love and the Gospel" written by one of the participants in this forum is a good place to begin in order to understand the lifelong struggle of minor attracted adults. Mark writes, "For years I accepted what society thought about me--that I was a latent child molester who would eventually lose self-control and abuse children. Then about two years ago I found the boylover sites on the internet. My fear, and the shame that accompanied it, began to subside. I realized there were many others like me. And they were not predators or molesters." Maggie (wife, mother, grandmother, and still learning) |