Hello I'm sorry but I don't have any idea who who are (or were) either. I think the thing to remember is that we are both physical and spiritual beings. Look at when a man meets a woman for the first time, the attraction is initialy sexual. It must be to ensure that intercoarse takes place to ensure continuation of the species. But not only must the attraction be sexual, but there must be some love there to ensure the couple stay together so that children can grow up in a stable background. I quess what I am trying to say is that sexual and emotional feelings towards a partner are both inter-related, be it a woman or a boy. There is nothing you can do about it, it's the way your made, do not feel guilty about your feelings. Do what I do, I have had some wonderful emotional relationships with boys, but nothing sexual. Of coarse those feelings are there, but you just have to learn not to act on them. I'm sorry but there isn't an easy answer. At the end of the day just remember this. You are what you are and if you didn't have the feelings you have, then you wouldn't be you. God bless Dannyboy |