stranger's post (linked below) about her fiancé really hit me hard. I was amazed to learn that anyone could love their boyfriend so much and completely accept the fact that he is a boylover. Not only that, but want to share in that part of his life and communicate openly with him about his love for boys. Thus, I was especially shocked when I realized that stranger is MY fiancée! I didn't realize that I wasn't being open with her about that side of my life, but she was exactly right. I was avoiding talking about it because I was afraid it would turn her off or get her worried. I know she said she accepted the boylover part of me when I finally got up enough guts to tell her, but I guess I just never really believed her. Well, I do now. I love you, stranger, for the unconditional and understanding love you have given me. I am perhaps the luckiest boylover in the world to have someone so close to me understand and accept me for who I really am. Thank you! P.S. To everyone else out there: stranger is soooo cool! She told me on the phone the last time I talked to her that she had seen Gladiator and that it had a really cute boy that I would like. The boy made her think of me! Praise God! ChoirBoy |