Derek, You make a lot of good points, and you have questioned some things that I didn't get into in my post which I would like to expand on here. However, I have an early day tomorrow, and can't do it now. Let me just say that I will respond to your comments and questions, including the question about my "immorality" with his mother (which was definitely a big issue), the pastor that knew us both, and the church's reaction to the whole ordeal. I'll need some time to do that, and hope to post it here on Friday night or early Saturday morning. Peace! ~Splash* |