Your comments go to the heart of what this board is about and the struggles we all face. Of course there are times when we'd be inclined to go down that route - but in reality it is not good for either us or the boy. Sex is (partly) about creating and strengthening a life long relationship - to use it promiscuously is to undermine the possibility of its proper use in your life. A brief response as I'm out of time - hope it helps! |