Re: 01boy...Two questions for you....
Submitted by Once a Boy on November 01 2000 17:24:04
In reply to Re: 01boy...Two questions for you.... submitted by 01boy on November 01 2000 13:22:16
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Thanks for your interest and taking the time to answer my questions. Regarding Question1. You may be right that no one has ever died from an orgasm, but perhaps a weak heart an an orgasm might cobntribute to death. That might not be a bad way to go. LOL. Anyway, I believe educated people can get AIDS. Condoms can fail or can be improperly put on even by a genius. Regarding Question2. I thought you may have had a sexual experience by what you wrote. I apologize if I was wrong. I don't think sex necessarily improves any relationship. It may make us become more dependent on that person. Our sexual desire is strong, and I think we can come to see that person as fufilling a need. Am I closer to that person because of sex? A horse can fufill a sexual desire, but am I any closer to the horse? I don't think sex necessarily brings me closer to the essence of who that persoin is. I think to get to the essence of one's souls...to touch in a spiritual way is the optimal in a relationship. Thus, I think I have been close to many people by seeking this rather than sex. Also, I think I can become dependent on my sexual partner, but not necessarily closer. Granted, the physical intamacy feels good and in a sense you are "learning more" about the other person's sexual needs, but sex is different than getting close in other ways. I still find a great "high" by touching the heart of others, so I'm not sure if sex can overshadow that high. Regarding Question3. I too have not felt closer to God because of sex. In sex, we focus all of our atention on another. Sometimes looking at that person as a piece of meat. This totally goes against what Jesus called the greatest commandment: "Love the Lord with all your heart and soul." Thus, I don't think I am drawing closer to God. However, God knows we sin all the time by doing what we want, and the closeness from God sometimes occurs after I recognize that He loves me despite my sin, my selfishness. You ended by saying, You don't think God condones "it." Is "it" sex or boylove? Either one is a good topic to bring up. Feel free to ellaborate on what you mean and let's hear the different views. Post a new message at the top, becasue this message is way down the list and many may not read here. I personally, don't think God finds an adult having sex with a child as pleasing; however, in the end, it may not matter whether one does or does not have physical contact. We all have sinned by our thoughts anyway, but the neat thing is that God forgives! Finally, if "it" was boylover, then I agree that I don't think God condones it, and as I have mentioned in many posts, I think it is God's gift to us. A gift to inspire a child, to give him guidance, hope, and love. A gift ot have patience when others say "Don't waste your time on trash like that." Who can reach into the life of a boy and make a positive impact? With God's help, it is us, the one's with a special attraction towards boys. ~Once a Boy |
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