Having read a good deal of what Heather writes, I don't seem to find your comments in line with my experience. When Heather says "boylover", she means our community. When Heather says "sex offender", she means someone who (most often) has been incarcerated for a sex offense. When Heather says "pedophile", she means any adult who is attracted to a prepubescent child. Although, in the past it *may* have refered to any adult attracted to any minor. Heather understands the terminology and I don't think she uses it without thinking. And I don't think that this support forum is the appropriate place for you to continue to harass Heather. Bach |