GCF, I'm pretty much in complete agreement with everything you said, except that where you consider being in love to be sufficient for a sexual relationship, I would look for something deeper and more committed, like the way a married couple share vows to be with each other forever. I take sex that seriously. I agree completely, it should be understood, and appreciated, and used wisely. My apologies if I gave you the impression I think sex is evil. That's neither what I think nor what I want other people to think I think. I am concerned that the possibility of misuse of sex, in the ways you mentioned, be not forgotten or dismissed. Should you stay? Yes, of course. Why wouldn't you? It's up to you, you're a free spirit. Fod |