Cody, Are you only attracted to older men, or are you also attracted to boys your own age? In either case, I think you might be helped by the many gay youth websites and resources that are out there. As a young teen, you need to give yourself time to figure out what your sexuality means to you, before you consider actually having a sexual relationship with an older person. Please don't have sex with an older man, unless he feels true love for you, and you have been in love with him for a very, very, very, very long time; and even then please DON'T do it if it is not legal where you live. Visit the links on BoyLinks that are for gay youth; or look up gay youth resources in a search engine, or if you don't feel that you are gay, there are many other resources about sexuality in the world that pertain to people of any sexual orientation. When I was your age, I felt the same way you do. I loved men, and I still do. But I never chose to have sex until I was 19. So please wait. You will be better off if you save your virginity for that one special person! ;) |