How old are you?
Submitted by Jimf3 on December 20 2000 12:21:08
In reply to I Need help submitted by Cody on December 16 2000 22:21:54
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Hi Cody, You'll need to be very careful with how you handle your attractions. But first you need to understand that they are normal. Many boys are attracted to older men. Usually these boys grow up to identify as being gay, but not always. People experience sexual attraction and desire across a very broad spectrum. Few people are comnpletely polarized. Yet for men who are mostly attracted to other men, most report that the attraction started when they were very young. So you are not at all alone. Of course you realize how much our society and legal system disapproves of sex between younger and older people. So if you decide to act on your attraction, there are significant risks. If you and your older friend were ever found out, there would be bad consequences for both of you. Depends on your age, though. In some places in North America, you many legally consent to sex at as young an age as 14. In other places you have to wait to turn 18. But don't buy into any of this "guilt" shit. Your attractions are normal and good and so is sex. Sex is a wonderful and beautiful experience. With somebody you love it can be mind blowing. But even in the absence of love, sex ROCKS. Don't listen to all the sick, moralistic people who will try to tell you how potentially damaging sex is. They've been infected by the terrible sickness that our society is afflicted with. Try to feel sorry for those people, but don't listen to them. They are not very capable of being rational. As a (I presume) adolescent boy, you have a natural right to experience the pleasures of your body. Just be VERY careful to avoid the traps that are out there in the form of people who have been deluded into thinking sex is bad or overly significant. If they get ahold of you, they'll fuck with you very badly. Jim |
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