Splash, I know you are trying to be helpful here but think about what you just wrote. This person isn't asking for your opinions or for your Christian service. All he wanted to do was share his pain and let us know that some boys really do love their boylovers. Even if that's a sin- and not all of us agree that it is- it is certainly *not* sinful to help us to love and forgive ourselves. You are welcome to serve the Lord as you see fit but please remember that we are ALL trying to do that and we are doing it in different ways. Please try from now on to spread more compassion and less theology. I can see from your posts that you really are trying to be supportive, so I know you will take this note as loving, Christian advice and not as hateful criticism. Happy Holidays. |