I don't think I can give you a definitive answer (as Altima pointed out, there isn't any "right way" to define these things, only whatever makes sense to you), but I think that the nature of your relationship depends on the extent to which you have romantic/sexual feelings going on. If it is just a deep platonic friendship, then I don't think there's any need to label it at all. But if you have actual sexual feelings for this guy, then it would probably make sense to say that you are gay, since he is 22, and not a minor. If he has the same feelings for you, then you could say that it is a gay relationship, but if he does not, then he is probably either straight/bi or a boylover, or both. Those are just my thoughts. Perhaps I am not answering the question the way you meant it though. |