whom you are out to and see how he reacts.... That would of course be one way forward. He may see nothing to get excited about, or he may panic and want to share the decision. Or isn't that a realistic approach :-) I'd encourage you to offer to work with the older age group; my own experience is that by focusing with contacts with older boys and avoiding the younger, my AoA has drifted upwards. You seem to be open to the older end anyway; it might be helpful to stick to that group and not the younger. |