Honesty is the best thing!
Submitted by Huck Finn on January 18 2001 11:22:21
In reply to can I be honest ....? submitted by porn site on January 18 2001 04:17:05
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Most of us still struggle with the questions you just ask. And some people conclude it's a blessing. Others condemn it as a curse. But I think of it as just a way of life. I believe too that wanting to "get in a boys pants" is totally wrong and against what God would want. But the temptations are there. And I guess it's just a way of life. I'm stuck with it. I've asked God to take it away... but he hasn't. So I've learned to live with it. I've learned to channel my "negative" thoughts into something more positive. ANd i Know that sounds so stupid. It did to me when others suggested it to me. CBF is a GREAT way to do that. It's supposed to be a SUPPORT forum. And I see it goign back that way. Some people here are really here to help you out. Some seem to want to just debate theories... That's why I don't read every post. But I do post things that I want to know. If you look back, you see me asking some of the questions you've been asking. And it helps me get through the day. Other "boy lovers" experiences can help. I consider a boy lover as someone who loves to spend time with boys. Someone who LOVES to help them out. Someone who can't wait to just be with their younger boy friend. (notice the space between boy and friend) Sure sometimes you get some sexual urges... but I focus my relationships with boys on Christ! If you always have Christ as a third friend, you should be fine! Yes, you'll get urges and tempations and lusts in there... but that's Satan and you tell him that you can only serve one master and that's GOD! Pray with your YFs (young friends) and read the bible with them! Go on a walk with them. Hope this helps a bit. Huck Finn. Feel free to email me by clicking on my name at the top of the post God bless you! |
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