Re: What is your view?
Submitted by Hediedforme2 on January 23 2001 03:23:11
In reply to What is your view? submitted by Celibate on January 23 2001 02:10:41
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My personal view is that being a boylover in and of itself is not sinful. I honestly think that boylove in it's purest form (meaning without the sexual side) is from God. But somewhere along the line, the closeness we crave for a boy has extended to include the sexual intimacy that God intended for a man and wife. I believe this part of out boylove should be resisted. There are 3 reasons to refrain from sexual activity with a boy. 1) I believe the Bible clearly indicates that a sexual relationship was intended only for a husband and wife. 2) Boys are going thru a lot of changes both physically and emotionally. A sexual encounter or relationship with a man could really harm them. There are numerous documented cases where the kid had real problems dealing with what happened, even if the sex was consentual. Some boys may handle it ok, but is it really worth the risk just to satisfy our lusts? True, a boy may really need an adult male's love and attention, but I have a hard time believing any boy actually NEEDS to have sex with us. 3) It's illegal and could ruin your life and land you in prison. So those are the three reasons I refrain. It's contrary to what the Bible teaches, it might hurt the boy, and it might hurt me/you. I know there are others here that disagree with me, but that's my view. |
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