Jordan, you may as well forget it. These people have decided first that they want to continue lusting after boys, and second that they want to 'be Christians.' If they ever ever ever hear or feel that it is the Lord's will NOT to actively lust after boys, they will reject it, using whatever arguments they can come up with, so that they can continue to claim that God has no problem with actively lusting after boys, and encouraging that lust to strengthen and develop. They just don't want to call any of it sin and definitely do not want to stop. |