Dear Jordan, One of the conclusions you've come to definitely needs to be challenged. The fact that you were brought to seek satisfaction in homosexual relationships by a means that was probably flawed and inappropriate for you, doesn't at all meant this is true of everyone else. I, for example, was never sexually abused as a child.....indeed I had no sexual contact with anyone until I was in my early thirties. I received love, understanding and support from my father and never sought the company of a man to provide these things. For me, the sexual orientation I have is as natural as can be. I've only questioned it because other people told me I should....not because it ever felt in any way wrong. If you learn nothing else from us, please know your story is not the story......only one of many, a lot of them strikingly different. ---Ford |