Why am I a boylover?
Submitted by Splash! on January 26 2001 00:26:10
In reply to Why am I a boylover? submitted by Piemur on January 25 2001 21:20:28
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It's probably very hard to pinpoint the reasons for anyone's sexual orientation, but I was wondering if there are certain commonalities that stand out among boylovers? There's often talk about lack of a father figure or some sort of loss of childhood, but isn't this just as common among so-called "normal" heterosexuals? Personally, I'd really like to know why I'm a boylover, but I fear I'll never really know. I have my own thoughts as to why I might have become one. I don't think I was born one, but I believe I desired to be one (or at least followed through with certain wants, fantasies, etc) during a crucial time of my life -- right around puberty. At age 12, I liked both boys and girls my age; however, as I became older, I continued to like girls my age (not younger), but I never stopped liking 12 year old boys. I'm rarely attracted to men my age, so I guess I'm not homosexual, but I do find 12-14 year old boys particularly attractive. Also, I find women my age attractive, and not girls. So... what made me this way? I feel there must've been certain things that contributed to my sexual orientation while I was being raised. But should I even waste my time trying to figure it out? ~Splash* |
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