You said; "My reasoning is that sexual contact with a minor can really hurt them and mess up their head, and I can't see God giving us something that quite often would cause harm if we were to give in to our desires". Good point, I must say that I for one cannot except that God would give us something that would cause such harm to another. "Recent studies demonstrate that boys are not very likely to be harmed by having sexual experiences with men" May I ask which studies suggest this? I grant you that, not every boy will be psychologically harmed through a "boylove relationship" But surely, if that relationship enters the realms of sexual manipulation, abuse, coercion and dominance then, the child is indeed at risk of being hurt in one way of another.\ Jordan |