I think the word CAN gives plenty of reason to abstain from sexual relations. For example, if you say "If you drive drunk, you WILL get into an accident and kill someone" it is not a true statement. But the statement "Driving drunk makes it more likely that you CAN get into an accident and kill someone" is a true statement. Just because it is not a certianty that driving around after polishing off a pint of scotch will result in an accident, doesn't mean that you should do it. If you care about a boy, the risk of hurting him should be enough to disuade you fom doing it. That hurt could come from the sex it self or from the consequenses of it being found out. Different sources of damage, but still damage to the boy and the man. |