Thanks for your thoughtful reply. There are some similarities there. I didn't even get into the time when the boys parents were separated, had actually forgot about it until I read some of your stuff. I was also told to "back off" by the church, but because they were sure they could provide her with better counsel. In a few months they had labeled her as "beyond hope" and dropped her. I was lucky to have a good relationship with both of them, and had some part in bringing them back together. These days, the dad is as enthusiastic to see me come over as the boys! Well, I hope things are working out for you now, Nate |