I agree, Forgiven. I choose to look; I choose to fantasize; and I choose to interact. Jesus said that we've committed adultery already if we've done it in our mind. Entertaining thoughts in our minds is a choice we make. It is possible to resist them (I've done it for months at a time). And yes, I agree that there are certain things in my life that have led me to have these thoughts, but I strongly disagree that I was born a boylover. It has been born out of the choices I've made. Splash |