Hey Nate, Glad this has been helpful. I do think the most important thing is to come out of denial into honest exploration. I like the idea of the four quadrants of attraction. I suppose you could say that everyone experiences attraction to some degree in all four, but the balance will be different. The challenge for anyone who claims not to have any attraction in one or more is to look closer, just to be sure, because maybe way back in the past there was, and it's been forgotton or suppressed for some reason. Not much time now, but good to talk. With Christian love, Jules |