If you think it's wrong to be in an adult gay sexual relationship, then why the extreme hurry to avoid younger boys and hang out more with older guys? That is, if you're keeping away from sex anyway, then why the need to keep away from younger lads? Maybe as an insurance measure, "just in case", if desire and desparation were to overwhelm you? I'm not much help either, though, I fear. I can see what other guys see in girls. For me it really is a preference to enjoy other guys' company. I could think about dating a girl, but my concern is that I'd always be thinking of her as "second best", which is no situation to put a girl through. Fod |