Re: yes...
Submitted by ReTeIp on August 27 2001 10:56:58
In reply to yes... submitted by Splash! on August 23 2001 02:06:40
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I know some heterosexual guys who are either too ugly, too stupid, too shy, too obsesed or whatever... and they can't get a girl... I can assure you there mind is very narrowed also, they only think about one thing. I'm *NOT* saying you are ugly, stupid.... and so on... I'm just saying that if you want something and you can't have it, you get obsessed by it... the reason why you can't have it could be ugliness, stupidness, whatever... but it could also be disaproval of society, not feeling good about your own feelings, not being able to accord your feelings with your religion, whatever... The question you should ask yourself is not whether your feelings agree with who you are, what your beliefs are or what your education has teached you, but whether you are more capable of handling your feelings by giving in to them or not giving in to them... not giving in to your feelings creates frustration, giving in to them creates love... how many boylovers emphatically state that they are showing a boy unconditional love at the same time that they KNOW they are receiving some kind of pleasure for themselves out of the relationship? What a foolish thing to say... there is no such thing as unconditional love... a "dad", who is supposed to show unconditional love, does not even show unconditional love... that's why dad's with authistic childrens often have a harder time dealing with their kids as dads with children with the down syndrome... authistic children can block themselve away from society... down syndrome children do love a hugh... Dad's with authistic children do not love their children less then dad's with down syndrome children...the latter just have it a bit easier, cause they get something back, be it just a hugh or an "I love you"... I'm seriously in love with my YF, but if I never saw any sign that he loves me (just a little bit) too, I would not drop him, cause I never would have fallen in love with him in the first place... It is possible that there are a lot of boylovers who state that unconditional love is enough for them. It's not for me... |
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