i have two YF's.....i suppose that is what i would call them one i see almost every day (i am at his house now actually) and the other i see every week, he spends most weekends with me ummmm one of em i met thru work (i used to drive a school bus) and the other i met when i did some work for his dad the latter, incidentally, i am good friends with the whole family. his parents actually know of my BL. we dont discuss it often, but they know, and still allow my friendship with their son they are very strong christians, and always challenging me and i know that the two parents have some difficulties with their knowledge of me, but they are always loving and accepting...and never condemning there are also two other brothers from a different family that i go hang out with three or four times a month...actually i am going out to the lake with them this weekend, hopefully i met those two at a camp also, in an interesting coincidence i used to work with kids almost all of the time in many different capacities, but have gone into the construction field lately, in order to make some money for a business venture that will hopefully allow me soon to be working for myself and in a few years retired fairly early (i am only 24, and hope to be retired by 30) so i only see a few boys regularly, altho i do make time in my crazy schedule to coach a boys sports team in the fall and spring...just for fun and i have found it to be a pleasant break from being surrounded from children all the time... sorry for rambling so long but ya asked heehee see ya Scott |