First of all, this isn't a boylove problem

It's a problem any Christian - or other person holding similar values - would face. I'm sure that the number of non-pedophiles struggling with image-surfing habits far outweighs the number of boylovers facing this problem. I think that, if I were faced with this problem, I would take Forgiven's advice. And if presenting the pictures to Jesus seems like too high a goal, why not consider choosing someone who is accepting of the fact that you're a boylover but shares the high standards you've set for yourself? How would you feel if that person walked in while you were looking at the pictures? That might give you a better sense of whether you're leaving the path you're trying to follow. Heather [E-mail]   [Home Page]