Re: Really need some input on a struggle I'm having
Submitted by picolo on October 5 2001 11:26:04
In reply to Really need some input on a struggle I'm having submitted by Dakota on October 2 2001 15:35:49
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i know from-which you speak. I have messed with one boy in my life and it was not a good expereince and have not done it since. We are still great friends now too i might add. We got our differences straightened out and we are both fairly broad minded people. I asked God's forgivness and he granted it because in this instance i did wrong by my young friend. I, too get turned on by images, or the real thing, of boys in various stages of undress. I dont think any true boy lover has not had the same feelings at one time or another. I just feel this goes along with the territory and is something that , with a little help, i can control. I mean, look at all the other positive things you can impact in a young man's life. If you are lucky, you become great friends with a boy, establish and maintain a great relationship, then you become: not his dad, but better; not his grand dad, but better; not his best friend, but more; not his uncle, but more than that. He will talk to you about things that he would not dare speak to family about; he will seek you out for the kind of advice that only someone with that kind of relationship would trust to speak of. So i think the good outweighs the bad, if you dont do the bad! picolo |
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