I can agree with what you said, Forgiven. I guess I assumed, perhaps incorrectly, that gayboylover was a Christian. And I'm not saying that it would be impossible to be both a Christian and also in a gay sexual relationship, although it is my belief that the relationship would be sin. But maybe he is a seeker as you describe. In either case, I wasn't trying to put restrictions on when a person can ask advice. I was just concerned that by giving advice on how best to maintain a gay relationship without mentioning that it is still sin, might be construed as endorsing it. So my only goal was to point out that what 2 adults do is their own business, but the Bible doesn't support it. Thanks for adding a lot of things that I left out. Dakota |