Re: Unlucky in love
Submitted by John Doe on November 13 2001 16:17:55
In reply to Re: Unlucky in love submitted by Gabe on November 13 2001 15:14:37
| If you are only seeing them for a few months, that is hardly settling for Miss Right Now. How are you supposed to know if the one you are seeing is the right one for you if you don't see her for a bit. However, I can relate to the idea of being more in love with the idea of being in a relationship than in love with the one you are in the relationship with. I don't think it is all that uncommon. Part of it, at least for me stemmed from my love of kids. I always knew i wanted to be a dad. After all isn't that the ultimate emotional boy love or girl love experience? Unfortunately, the only way to become a dad is to find a mom to do it with. While it might not be in the best interests of the kids to do so, Mom's do not have the same problem. If they want to become a mom, they can do so without all that much cooperation from a guy. I can also sympathize with not wanting to hurt a loved one by telling them the whole truth about yourself. Just how do you bring up the subject. Like over thanksgiving dinner do you say. "Oh by the way, I get really turned on by the idea of naked 12 yo boys and like to jerk off to those thoughts". It can hurt them, and it can most certianly lead to them rejecting you or worse. |
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