I agree. Being a BL is not a blessing in God's eyes. We can overcome if we choose to. I'm sure I'll catch a lot of flack on that one. It's something we have to struggle with on a daily basis. It's a "thorn" in our side to keep us humble, like Nicolai said. You can be a blessing to a boy without being a BLer. Being a BLer and being close to boys is just too tempting. We can lust in our minds and never touch a boy, and it would still be sin... DW |