Hi Mark, Good point about my sigpic. If anyone is bothered by it, I will definately change it. I set it up years ago anyway. Yes, you and I are sexual beings. That is how God created us and it is how he wants us to be. From a purely biblical standpoint, those sexual desires are supposed to be directed towards our wife (unless we happen to have 'The Gift'). While I do not believe that there is any biblical distinction between having lustful thoughts about a boy, a girl, a woman or a man I do believe that there is a distinction between the thoughts being directed towards a spouse, versus someone who is not a spouse. Why God allows us to be a BL I am not sure. I'm just looking at what the bible says about it. You are not alone. Love, Ben |