Like, who out there thinks Afrian American boys are cute? I never thought much about the race issue and how it applied to my being a boylover, but now that I think of it, I'm pretty much attracted to all races of young boys as long as they have (what I consider to be) good-looking puppy dog eyes which a lot of Caucasians have, some African-Americans and some Eastern Indian kids, and some Hispanic children. Not Asian peoples so much. Also, I'm not a girl-lover but sometimes when I see a little girl with big beautiful eyes, I start to fall in love with her also. For me, a fun-loving personality also attracts me, no matter what the race! There's many other factors also: hair color & length, eye color, weight, etc. Do you find yourself liking blond-haired blue-eyed boys more than others? Maybe you can break down your attraction to something a little more specific than just race. Skin color probably doesn't have as much to do with it as you might think. By the way, I might add that we shouldn't seek out certain types of boys to befriend and/or give special treatment. We need to see each boy as a "divine appointment" -- a boy that has been placed in our lives for a purpose, no matter what he might look like. Obsessing over his looks and certain parts of his body is not a healthy thing for you to do. It's a dangerous place to be, for many reasons. But I'll save that for another discussion. Glad you're here. |