Re: Thank You!
Submitted by Chris on December 4 2001 14:44:48
In reply to Re: For Brother J submitted by Ben on December 3 2001 20:15:16
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Hi Ben, It has been a long time since I have heard from you and I am so happy to see you here in CBLF again! I have not had the time I would need to read a lot of your posts as I must write from a library computer, but I hope you are well and the Lord has continued to bless you in the really wonderful ways that He has since I have known you. Believe it or not, I began thinking this way when I was more than impressed with a post I read here long ago written by one of our friends, Jim Finn (I hope I got his 'nick' right, he is another person I haven't seen around here for a while.). I am sure it could probably be found in the archives somewhere, but it is a post in which he made this same point to show how the heterosexual community, at large, "programs" boys from a very young age to believe that sex is something that is of utmost importance in thier lives, and to the unfortunate extent that they feel they MUST have it in order to be seen as "normal". At least I think that was the general idea Jim was making in his post. That thought has intrigued me ever since and I have been tossing ideas related to it around in my head, if you will. And, it seems like the more I work on this, the more convinced I become that this is indeed a phenominon that NEEDS to be examined very closely...especially by people like us. I absolutely agree with you, Ben, on the points you have made about this which you have found to be true in your own life. Indeed, a new attitude about sex MUST be obtained, especially by boylovers, if any kind of peace of mind is to be ours. I doubt if any of us can truthfully say that the sight of a beautiful young boy, in any kind of clothing really, is not stimulating sexually and, I am sure, distracting as well. I really do feel for you, by the way, I think I would personally find the situation you have been in to be almost too much for me. Yes, I also agree that masturbation as a form of sexual outlet which is safe, is very effective. It has been for me for quite a long time. Thank you for your imput, brother, I really appreciate it big time! Love in Christ Jesus, Chris |
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