as it was my intention to be clear that I was in no way condoning sexual contact with the boy; rather I was seeking to offer pointers to provide practical guidance about what is not going to cause any confusion in either the boy's or the BL's mind. We're walking on the edge of a cliff when we are dealing with boys - especially where they're testing out their sexuality - we need to be able to think clearly about what is right, and what is wrong in a world where we do have the privelege of contact with boys. To quote the bible or the realities of the criminal justice system in that context doesn't really help!! |