Re: Be Careful What You Ask For
Submitted by Ben on January 5 2002 08:28:53
In reply to Re: Be Careful What You Ask For submitted by Dakota on January 4 2002 14:14:24
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Thanks Dakota. This is helpful. You are right, I have not been sexual with her. Fortunately, we are both very committed Christians and I know that SHE would never lead an immoral life purposely. So, it has been quite easy for me to also not go down this path. On the other hand, talking about an addiction to boys would NOT go over well. There is no acceptance for this in her way of thinking (or my church's) other than a radical expectation of complete repentence and a moratorium on any interaction with children. They would ACCEPT anyone, but they would not be able to understand the difference between BLs who molest children and BLs who do not. Because my sexual outlet has ALWAYS been just fantasy and masturbation, I considered telling her that I have struggled with 'pornography', which is basically the truth. Even though the pictures that I have looked at have not been illegal pornography, just beach pictures and magazine ads, they still carry all of the addictive and destructive aspects of a true pornography struggle. It would also be consistent with my struggle to be aroused. You are not alone. Love, Ben |
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