passion
Submitted by Splash! on January 6 2002 00:45:10
In reply to Be Careful What You Ask For submitted by Ben on January 4 2002 07:07:10
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I've had some successful relationships with girls; though, I'm more attracted to boys. With my last relationship, I found that once I started to get passionate about her, I became aroused by her (and I was able to perform). I think the key is passion. Spend some time thinking about all the good qualities you like about her and the dreams you want to fulfill through your life and relationship with her. I find that certain types of music also work to help bring out this feeling of passion. For me, I'd listen to Shania Twain in my car on the drive home to her -- it got me in the mood. Not that I really needed the music, but at least it kept my mind on her. Now I have a new girlfriend, and I'm finding that the more I think about her, the more passionate I'm feeling toward her, i.e. I'm falling in love with her. If we do get married, I don't have any doubt that I could make the wedding night special. I wish you well, Ben. Splash |
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