J, For what it's worth, the first Christian counselor that you went to see broke the law and his own code of ethics as a counselor by tricking you. You've actually got a hefty lawsuit, though I understand that it would expose you to a degree that perhaps you don't want to be exposed. How greatful I am becoming for boychat and the BL community. With all of the nothingness on boychat, it has brought alot of needy people to know that they are not alone. Love, Ben |