I have gone to boychat a few times just to check it out. It goes way too fast for my tastes. I think the big difference is that most of the people here are Christians. At BC, some are and some aren't. I come here because I need to be around other Christians with the same attractions as me. And I need to be around other Christians that can understand the special trials and temptations pedophiles face, and not condemn me, but encourage me in my walk with Christ. BC is an excellent forum. But it isn't Christ centered. God is who helped me thru the hard times when I first realized I was a boylover. He has been the anchor that has kept me from going insane or dropping into a pit of depression. I can't fathom how I would handle being what I am without Him. So while i do browse other forums sometimes, and even post at one other, I always consider this place not just my home, but my refuge. Dakota |