Fantasy prepares the ground for doing
Submitted by Forgiven on January 13 2002 06:57:45
In reply to err...that problem i talked about heh submitted by foxfire on January 10 2002 17:37:21
| If we fantasise about having a sexual relationship with a boy, then to some extent we have chosen to do so. The result is that our resistance actually doing so if the opportunity does present itself is reduced; we are walking a dangerous path - we need direct our fantasies in a way that is less damaging. For me that has meant choosing to raise my 'Age of Attraction' by focusing on older boys; as a result over a period of years my AoA has moved into the legal range (in my jurisdiction over 16) - though as I'm in my early 40s, that may not be a great comfort; I offer it as a long term objective..... |
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