What you said brought back memories
Submitted by dakota on January 18 2002 18:41:58
In reply to yes yes YES submitted by tigris on January 18 2002 16:47:47
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"Naked boys may turn me on, but it's mostly because in my fantasies, I think that if the boy trusts me so much that he doesn't even mind being naked in my presence, then he must truly trust me" When I read that, I had a flashback to my childhood. I remember how when I was young, letting a friend see you naked was a sign of true friendship and trust. It wasn't something that was ever spoken about. It was just an action that conveyed to the other person how close you felt to them. Kind of a male bonding ritual. If you were casual friends, you would excuse yourself and go to your room to change clothes. If you were close friends, you would invite your friend to your room while you changed in front of him. Sometimes you would decide to change your underwear also (even though you didn't really need to) so you could bare yourself totally to your friend. Or perhaps decide it was time to take a shower and ask your friend to come into the bathroom with you so you could "talk." This was all non-sexual. And it wasn't just me, but I think most everyone seemed to know and practice this unspoken ritual of friendship. And you know, I think this "ritual" is still in practice today. I remember a few times where my YF would find excuses to be naked in front of me. And I'm sure he wasn't trying to turn me on or be lude. It's weird how I haven't thought about that for years, but what you posted brought it all back. I'm wondering what kind of connection that might have in me being a boylover. Dakota |
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