Hi Ben, I agree with everything you said, and I support your decision to deal with your BL issues here on CBF. I did not find CBF until years later, after I had already confessed and been isolated. At least in my case, trying to confess openly to the church leadership forced a lot of spiritual growth ;), but it was not helpful in dealing with BL. On the contrary, being rejected and isolated placed me in a very dangerous place. I thank God that He led me to CBF at the right time! I have grown incredibly in my understanding of my BL feelings since coming here. I think it works. Thanks for being here!, Nate |