Mark, what you say makes a lot of sense. I haven't done the research. I tend to talk more than I ought, hoping that somehow some wisdom will pop out and I'll learn from it. It's replies like yours that really make me stop and think. We get so caught up in a certain mode of thinking. If we hear things often enough, we start to believe them. Shame on me for spreading the lies and half-truths I've heard. I see I have a lot more growing and learning to do. I'm very much interested in researching more on this topic. Thanks for the resources you listed. Anything else I should dig into? Let me know here or there. Thanks. Splash |