It's tough! I guess I have to admit, I'm a little disappointed in myself, too... I thought I was pretty good at unconditional love, but when I read some of those (imo) inexcusably vitriolic posts on BC, the anger rises in me just like the mercury in a thermometer! Of course, being angry with someone isn't the same as not loving them, I know... I can love them AND be angry with them at the same time... What's difficult, I guess, is loving them, trying to contain my anger and not succumbing to despair, all at the same time... love always! John |