it's always good to have new arrivals, and hopefully we can be of some assistance in your making sense of where you're at. One specific question that interests me - does your wife know that you are a BL, and how does that effect your relations - if she does, how does she cope, if she doesn't, does that seem to affect your relationship? We've had one BL visitor in his 60s who'd been married since about your age, so it does happen, and can work out... |