Dear J, I am also saddened that your post was not responded to, and that flames overwhelmed efforts to seek or provide support. In my opinion, you fit in very much here. As others have posted, there are some who have acted on their sexuality, and I don't think most of those who have remained celibate consider those who haven't as somehow inferior. I'm sorry if it seems like it. And I also think there are many here who are exclusively BLers. I for one have absolutely no attraction to adults. I am saddened by your situation, and I hope you will stay here and receive encouragement and friendship. You're in my prayers. I'd love to get an email from you. Mark |