Dear Bach, Though I would have to agree with your assessment that it's not likely people change their positions much, I find it pretty sad. It strikes me as rather strange, too, considering the relevance of this subject to the way we as BL's live our lives (as you point on in your own personal situation), that there are a high number of fence sitters. Here's to hoping we are both wrong and a friendly discussion of this topic ensues! Love in the Lord, J |